Synopsis
99 Red Flags to Recognize Before Saying 'I Do': Building a Solid Foundation from the Start
Navigating the journey to marriage is filled with excitement and anticipation, but it also requires wisdom and discernment. In "99 Red Flags to Recognize Before Saying 'I Do'," author Osoria Asibor offers a comprehensive guide for anyone seeking to build a strong, God-centered relationship from the very beginning.
Drawing on over two decades of focused study and more than a decade of experience as a Christian counselor, Osoria provides readers with invaluable insights into the potential pitfalls that can arise in relationships. This book is a must-read for those who want to ensure they are making a wise and informed decision before entering into the sacred covenant of marriage.
Each chapter delves into critical areas of concern, offering biblical perspectives and practical advice on how to identify and address red flags in various aspects of a relationship, including:
Personality and Character Traits:
Learn to recognize signs of dishonesty, lack of empathy, and other traits that can undermine a healthy relationship.
Communication Issues:
Understand the importance of effective communication and how to spot problems like poor listening skills and defensive responses.
Financial Red Flags:
Be aware of financial irresponsibility and secretive behaviors that could lead to future stress.
Relationship Dynamics:
Identify controlling behaviors, lack of respect, and other dynamics that can damage trust and harmony.
Lifestyle and Habits:
Consider the impact of lifestyle choices and habits on long-term compatibility.
Family and Background:
Recognize how family dynamics and unresolved issues can influence your relationship.
Emotional and Mental Health:
Address mental health concerns and emotional availability for a stable and supportive partnership.
Compatibility and Values:
Ensure alignment in life goals, values, and religious beliefs.
Future Plans and Expectations:
Discuss and align your future plans and expectations to build a unified vision.
Behavior in Conflict:
Learn to manage conflicts effectively and avoid destructive behaviors like physical aggression and emotional blackmail.
Osoria Asibor combines his spiritual wisdom with practical guidance, helping readers to not only recognize red flags but also to seek God's guidance in building a relationship that honors Him. This book serves as a beacon of hope and a roadmap for those on the pilgrimage towards a healthy, fulfilling, and God-centered marriage.
About the Author:
Osoria Asibor is a prolific author and seasoned Christian counselor with over two decades of focused study in Christian living and more than a decade of practical counseling experience. His works serve as guiding lights for individuals navigating the intricate pathways of faith, relationships, and personal development. He holds an MBA in Finance, reflecting his adeptness at intertwining spiritual conviction with secular expertise. As a devoted husband and father, Osoria embodies the Christian virtues he espouses, making him a beacon of hope for those yearning for a closer communion with God.
For further support, you can reach Osoria at standardwordz@gmail.com.