The author of this book has drawn his knowledge and conjectors from various sources: the Boys and Girls scouts; the military of the United States, the Bible, both Old and New Testaments; experiences of living in four different continents and in many cities in twenty-two states of the USA, from the Northeast to the Southwest; and from private observation of where people live and where they are sometimes forced to make hard decisions, with the private conjectors of over fifty-eight years of living on his own. What the author is seeking is to erane they way each who read this book, either on line or through paperback, of what they have done right and what they may have done wrong in their lives, not to have regrets but to look at the other side of the coin. To help change the way people have seem to become to others and how to give respect to others along with understanding, without rejection, no matter the color or density of one another's skin, and be truthful to one another, along with themselves, and to forgive and learn hopefully a better way to be to one another and let there be no outcast, no matter the disability or handicap or age of that person. Now mostly to make them think and not judge what the other is like or feeling.