After a long hard fight for equality, and only getting don't ask, don't tell, I settled down with the love of my life. 20 years later I look back and realize I have cooked in a golf resort, a gay resort and at home. In 2011, my partner needed a kidney and we were a match. April 7th 2011 was the best thing I have ever done, and now he is healthy. We are still in love and love entertaining. Just sharing some recipes and some history, so everyone can remember what got us where we are today and some recipes to share the history with.