Perspective is Everything Perspective is the key to understanding. People can cope with just about anything if they only have the framework in which to place what is happening to them, or what has happened to them. Humans are amazingly adaptable beings when not locked into old habits. Perspective is fluid, it changes with where we are in the time line of a situation and it changes with your own unique emotional make-up. Perspective is the tool we choose when we strive for balance and understanding. It is our best and greatest hope when we strive for forgiveness. The forgiveness of self is our goal. Have you ever felt haunted by things you have done in your past? Have you lost sleep over something you said or didn't say? Did you ever find yourself driving down the road or walking somewhere and out of the blue exclaiming to yourself about something that happened months or years ago, I can't believe I did that! Or said that! The unresolved has the power to continue to come back to haunt us. It has the ability to continue to replay that which we regret in our memory. Suffering is real. Pain is real, though it cannot be weighed and measured against someone else's pain. No one escapes life unscathed. I am not discounting that what you went through hurt. Your past did damage and the damage is real. I am not telling you to pretend it did not happen, just asking that you consider viewing your pain with new eyes. Where we are in the process of our pain determines how we view ourselves and others in this world. Pain in the days following someone you love leaving you from either death or abandonment feels different than the pain of that same loss 10 years down the road. Pain is real, it is going to keep bumping into you. It is what you do with it that will determine your quality of life. By your will and your intent you can shape and create anything. You place your order and the universe begins to fill it for you. By our will and by our intent do we take control of our lives and shape them. Our will is completely compatible with God's willingness. God has given us the free agency to decide for ourselves. God will not step in to stop you from achieving everything you ever wanted, or from throwing everything you ever wanted away. Our choice is only what shall we do next? This book tells you in clear and easy to understand language how to go about making healthier and happier decisions for ourselves and our future. This book contains simple and straight-forward techniques to end our suffering and transform our life for a brighter future. This is a hands on and how to book on ending your suffering and moving past your grief, guilt and the voices from your past. In your hands is a ticket for a new start, with a new beginning and a simple method for achieving happiness.