After Rachel and Matthew had their first child, they had a couple of fights. Well, okay, more than a couple-they fought for over three years. They fought about schedules. They fought about bad habits. They even fought about the lawn mower. And besides actually having their child, it was the best thing that could've happened. Chronicling their greatest hits, from the Great Birth Control Debate to the Divorce Joke Showdown, is a post-partem story with hope. It offers true stories from the field, nitty-gritty advice and, most importantly, a nuanced understanding of what it takes to be married with children.