Why do some men find it easy to succeed with women...while others don't? What is the distinguishing feature between these two types of men? Individual differences...every man is attractive to specific women. Both men and women who might be considered unattractive to the average person succeed in attracting and winning highly desirable mates every day, everywhere. Your own experiences may suggest many such cases. Taste and preference in love is infinite. However, there is something in certain men that acts as a magnet in attracting different women! I have two pieces of news for you: one piece of news is good and the other is even better. 1. Good men are constantly in demand. Statistics show that for every single man there are several available women. In some countries there are ten or twenty available women to every single man. In reality women have to fight to get a good man. They have serious competition to win the heart of an eligible bachelor. 2. Age is no barrier. In comparison to their female counterparts, men in their later years who are of good character are much sought after. A good man can get a woman in any age group. Unfortunately, women fade quicker than men do. Often, their looks as well as their figure-shape diminish with age. How many books have been written on how to get or seduce a woman quickly? Many hundreds I would imagine-but what a waste of time! The secret formula for a successful man in the dating world is to become that good, attractive and desirable man. So, Let's Decode this Formula. Every woman likes good qualities in a man's personality, including confidence, honesty, power, generosity, as well as being resourceful and masculine. Also a sense of humor, the ability to lead with a combination of gentleness and kindness, and the ability to love and demonstrate commitment-yes, commitment-will attract most women. Even contemporary professional or businesswomen who have focused on their careers throughout their lives want love and devotion. As evidenced in the movie Sex and the City, here is a good example of how, eventually, even "loose" women would have only one man in their lives, to be loved and be faithful to him alone. In addition, it is important to understand what a woman needs from a relationship, and what she values in a male. What qualities attract her to particular men, and what standards does she have? What does a man need to do to be delicately attuned to her ideals? One important element for any happy relationship (when a man chooses a woman) is that looks count, but his personality is what makes the woman stick around. The reality of attraction is finding out what works with different women. What draws women to a particular man and why do they choose to create a relationship with him? Another criteria for successful outcomes in dating for men is an ability to understand what qualities he is looking for in a woman when developing a relationship, and what level of commitment each party is prepared to invest in the relationship. Invest? Yes, creating a healthy relationship takes time, energy, affection, emotions, feelings and other resources. Some people fall in love many times throughout their lives. They become attracted to the opposite sex initially through appearance, but over time, they develop a loving relationship based on qualities of character and personality as well as values. Despite the fact that we all have our preferences when trying to attract the opposite sex, you have to remember, it is a male's personality and character traits that draw women like a magnet. Even money or a handsome appearance cannot help to build a good relationship with a desirable woman if the man is abusive, mean, or unfaithful. To become effective in dating, you may need to learn new behavior skills and develop a new attitude that will catch the attention of desirable women. By knowing the fundamental principles of what attracts females, you can then focus on becoming an attractive male yourself