You're having trouble breathing. You spent months/years together and this was the GUY. You feel helpless, you were SO close. And now it's over. Bullshit! You want him back fast? Then trigger the male mind by stirring his most POWERFUL emotion; Losing you to another man! This is the KEY to getting your ex boyfriend back. When he realizes he might lose you, your little pink smart phone is going to text off the hook. But you know what? You still are not going to take him back. Nope, not until you do 3 more steps (this is his surprise) I'm Gregg and I know the male mind. I give YOU the BEST chance of getting your ex back. Forget the psychologists and doctor Jerk Off with a plague on the wall and listen to a top dating coach who knows the male psyche. Men have brains the size of squirrels, we are going to communicate by way of what they understand - nuts Not only will we STIR emotions in your ex like a frappe in a blender, we have a surprise for him. He is going to return to find you holding some different cards and they ain't sixes. They're ACES. This new found confidence will lure him like a cat to tuna and KEEP him. Why the added step? Because what good is it to get your ex boyfriend back just to be tortured by another breakup. 1) Write him a letter (powerful) 2) Break contact 3) Slip in, slip out (you will LOVE this and he will beg to get you back!) 4) Change your routine 5) Build a social network and use FB and Twitter (deviously) 6) Make him question the breakup He is watching you. You may doubt this but he is. Your ex still wants you at his beck and call so he can have his single life (cake) and eat it too (you in the fetal position eating Rocky Road waiting for him) We are going to change this! And we are going to have fun doing it too! Stop crying and let's DO something to get him back. My plan will keep you busy, build back your confidence and hedge your bet with other men. It's amazingly simple and effective! Gregg Michaelsen, Boston's top dating coach, delivers again with top dating advice for women. He owns the huge dating tips for men site; KeysToSeductions.com. Gregg is an with; and