This book is a quintessential, very personal discourse on the very nuanced dynamics of attaining and maintaining a rich and mutually satisfying intimate relationship with a Black man in 21st century America.  Author Belinda E. Oliver, a life coach and licensed Associate Therapist, explicates the root of breakdown in Black love, and then provides sound biblical and clinical advice for women on how to reverse the detriment and connect on a deeper level - emotionally, spiritually, and intimately.