is your alternative to the barrage of cookie-cutter self-help relationship books geared towards a set of rules that are intended to work for 'everyone.' This is a frank, honest, sexy and racy dating guide that helps you write YOUR own rules by getting REAL with yourself. It is written with a unique rock n' roll angle that music fans can enjoy. While doing the research for , we interviewed reputable therapists, rock star chicks, housewives, journalists, polyamorous couples, swingers, and best selling author Neil Straus (who wrote the controversial book ) who turned out to be a huge inspiration; and lastly even men we dated (gay & straight)! We reveal personal dating horror stories, successful dating stories, wild and romantic anecdotes, and the world of sexual fetishes. We hope you will laugh and cry with us like we do when we watch . We navigate dating in a tech-centric world including: online dating, social networking, and texting. We provide a step-by-step guide for you to create your perfect online profile. You will learn how to create your own vision board and write a successful business plan for love. Included are a variety of quizzes and mantras to help you. Our aim is to make you feel as though you are part of a non-judgmental secret girls "club" of sorts, just like you have with your own personal BFFs.