Nothing your marriage has sustained in the past compares to the pain of discovering that your spouse has been unfaithful. The betrayal, rage, sadness, and jealousy is unlike anything you've experienced before. And yet it is possible to move forward, decide what to do in your marriage, and most important, heal. For more than 10 years, has been offering sage advice and compassionate, nonjudgmental analysis. Based on the private practices of licensed marriage and family therapist and clinical psychologist , this third edition has been completely updated and gives you strategies to: brings you the new hope and the empathy you need in this difficult time.