“Tannen combines a novelist’s ear for the way people speak with a rare power of original analysis....Fascinating.”
—Oliver Sacks, author of
The Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat
and
The Mind’s Eye
In
That’s Not What I Meant!,
Deborah Tannen, renowned communication expert and author of the
New York Times
bestsellers
You’re Wearing THAT?
You Just Don’t Understand
, explores how conversational styles can make or break interpersonal relationships at home, at work, or at play. Fans of her books and the healthily curious reader interested in popular psychology, feminism, linguistics, or social sciences will be fascinated by Tannen’s remarkable insights into unintentional conversational confusion.
That’s Not What I Meant!
is an essential guide to recognizing and adjusting what we say and how we are saying it in order to strengthen or save a relationship.