Top Five Needs was developed out of our own journey in marriage, and our desire to make it great again. After several honeymoon years, we began to struggle in our communication and eventually it reached a scary turning point. God gave me a revelation about how I could follow a key biblical principle and go back and do the things I did at first. This book is our story, our pain and our victory. We have shared our most embarrassing moments and embraced a transparency and candor that most marriage books avoid. All of this is to help you find victory in your marriage as well. My wife and I believe in miracles, and God did a miracle in our marriage. That same miracle is available for you! We discuss difficult topics such as masturbation, divorce, adultery, role reversals and sex. We cover a wide variety of marriage issues that can become obstacles to finding health and satisfaction. Top Five Needs is different than other marriage books because it is birthed out of our journey knowledge, and not the social sciences. We discovered that solving marital problems doesn't have to be complicated, and it's not necessary to memorize different formulas and techniques. Nearly every new couple that decides to seriously date each other and eventually get engaged, follow these principles automatically. No one must teach them what to do, how to impress someone or how to serve them. They do it instinctively because the tools for relationships already exist within us. Overtime, we become selfish and lose the desire to please our spouse, and inevitably we take advantage of their commitment to us. This book will guide you in how to stop acting like each other's mother and father, and go back to being boyfriend and girlfriend again!