In these changing times people are confused about relationships, work, and in some cases, the ultimate purpose and meaning of life. As a woman who has spent over 30 years in pursuit of a relationship, as an employee, and as a reader interested in science, history, spiritual questions and animals, I have come to the conclusion that the most important single element effecting everyone's life is the pyramid hierarchy, which all are first introduced to at school as the A, B, C, D, and F grading system. I have written a book explaining how the hierarchy translates into hierarchical networks and the impact this system of ranking people has on everyday life creating overpopulation concerns while simultaneously stunting emotional growth. I believe the additional confusing influences of globalization and the economic crisis make this book timely and helpful, aiding the average person's navigation through the murky waters of present day uncertainty to keep a positive mental outlook on life and love. Personal experiences are presented at points where I feel a demonstrating example will be helpful for the reader. Throughout all chapters of the book I make the recommendation for change away from the pyramid hierarchy structure toward a more horizontal equality structure to help men and women everywhere recover a feeling and presence of love in their lives, which suffer from competition, rigid vertical structuring, and the appearance game.