GOD created the helpmeet to fill the guidance in the Headship of man's life. She is to help the man in the areas of weakness. But many women instead of complimenting it have become serious problems themselves, thereby, compounding the man's life. Every helpmeet is to be a problem solver to the Headship of the man, burden bearer not a burden the carrier. The suitable helper is supposed to make the Headship of man's life sweeter and not bitter. She is in his life to add spices to it. Therefore, every helpmeet should do what is necessary to make the Headship of the man life sweet and not bitter. The suitable helper is supposed to help the Headship of the man, to fulfill his dream and not destroy it. The suitable helper is supposed to help the Headship of the man maintain focus and not to lose focus by distractions. There is always the tendency to be distracted from one's vision in life. The suitable helper is a tension reliever and not a tension builder. The suitable helper is supposed to be a psychiatrist and counselor to the Headship of the man. The help meet is designed to be supportive and not subtractive. The suitable helper is a keeper of home and not a trouble maker. The suitable helper is to tidy up things and not make them untidy. A suitable helper should adapt to the Headship man's life and vision. A suitable helper should be good company to the Headship of man. The suitable helper is not to compete with the Headship of man. The suitable helper joins forces with the Headship of man to procreate. The suitable helper is a builder and not a destroyer. You should hold your wife's love by the same means that you won it. (Song. of Sol. 5:10-16).